PERMISSION TO LEAD

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I was in a consultation meeting reviewing the latest Strategy document of an organization that I'm collaborating with when I discussed the importance of leadership development as one of the capacity strengthening priorities.

One of the consultants in the room, remarked that "some people don't want to become leaders in the organization." That it's not for everyone. 

So I reasoned out that, we need to be mindful of the barriers and disincentives of leading when in fact, the culture is not supportive and rewarding to become one.

I don't blame them.

Leaders get shot at first or fired.

They seldom get rewarded for what they did/doing/will do.

Often times, the organization has unrealistic/unachievable expectations of them.

There are many training, workshop, coaches, advisors, and audits to train anyone for a leadership role since high school, but a genuine self-assessment is a dime and a dozen.

They eat last (Sinek) but more than that, they don't eat until the rest of the team eats.

They are alone/solitary in their decision-making and personal development.

It takes a whole amount of vulnerability, commitment to continuing learning and improvement, regular receipt of useful feedback and self-sacrifices and self-abandonment to become a leader.

Yes, I agree, some would be great supervisors, managers, and directors without invoking to become leaders in the process.

But I doubt, that being a supervisor or manager, will cut it in these modern and complex organizations we find ourselves now. Emergent models of business, structure, delivery, operational efficiencies, among others require not just great managers but a more enlightened, empathetic, and 'just-right' amount of leadership too.

In my book: Provocateurs, I talked how well-meaning, intentional leaders can make a huge impact by being grounded about who they are and their willingness to share themselves with others. They lead from within themselves through their passion, purpose, provision, practice, and paradigms. 

In my opinion, this is a "Permission to Lead" situation. Managers must be permitted to lead by those they are closely working with and also permit themselves to become one.

We have in our generation, the capacity riches (gazillion of tools and know-how), rationale, and wherewithal to become effective leaders. 

Our ancestors who had less in life, who fought in World War 1 and 2 and other wars stepped up as leaders, even without much preparation, tools, or even choice. They just did it. 

We have a choice to lead and it doesn't mean the top position/role in a company/organization/community.

We can lead in our families, neighborhood, and anywhere where we can influence.

It's a golden opportunity to grow and become a better human in the process.

Take it with open arms.