When was the last time you saw yourself in a broken mirror? 


We have a broken mirror.

Instinctively, I would just drop in on the landfill but my husband thought that there's use for it.

I later realized that, even broken mirrors can be useful yet.

We are all broken people.

We live in a broken world.

Only God can redeem us from our brokenness.

But beyond the broken pieces, lies a new purpose, a new usefulness that unexplored before.

If we look closely, we will know that all the broken people and things shouldn't be given up easily.

We give up easily.

And as a society, that's our bane.

I'm not a handyperson but I can tell that this mirror will hold more stories elegantly than the other mirrors in our house once repurposed.

I'm up  to the challenge of recreating it for something else.

I bet the 'artist' in my family will find it interesting.

Aren't we all interesting with our ugliness, mistakes, failures, and repeated falls? 

Look at the mirror and you will know what I mean.  

A fellow scholar I know recently posted a heart-warming appeal to help him find a job. Mind you he was a veteran, a scholar on conflict resolution,  a Volunteer Corps, and an educator.

He found himself without any savings after taking care of his mom and her health bills for six months. He doesn’t have the runway these few months until the next job which, if he did get that, would be for fall of next year.

What a sad predicament for those who think that these jobs will be there when they need them and they will get them when they apply. In one job posting, there will be 500, close to 800 applications in Canada for a great job, not even counting the US statistics. You’re very lucky if you were even short-listed and interviewed.

People are addicted to the paycheck, and once this goes away, they don’t know what to do. They didn’t plan to become business owners or entrepreneurs in their minds. But this denial of the insecurity of employment is grave.

Getting a degree or, in my friend’s case, a double PhD won’t give you a free bus ride to downtown. Maybe just a reservation at the nicest spot in a restaurant. But you will not enjoy that if you can't pay for a nice meal and always feeling worried about how to pay the bills.

This is what I would do: 

Instead of posting for help to donate to my personal appeal page or ask for a job from colleagues on Facebook or LinkedIn, I would be resourceful by getting a short-term contract work in the community. Maybe the library can use a hand when it's peak season. The community college might need a substitute teacher or a researcher for a funded project. Maybe the municipality needs event organizers for an upcoming festival. I would go out, call people, and visit the office and ask directly to help. I would be pro-active and will not rest until I find something in the meantime. I'm pretty sure that there will be somebody out there who wants what I can offer and take me in willingly. 


Offer to help for a fee. No one rejects that.

If you ask to people to donate to you, who are actually strangers, it takes a toll on your personal brand and it harms your self-worth too.  The latter is more damaging. 

Have the courage of your skills, talents, and value. 

Hit the road, knock on offices, call people.
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Early in my consulting and writing career, I met one of the municipality's Economic Development Officers. She told me that if I want to consult with the municipality I have to enrol to this Community Engagement Training program for Facilitators.

I have been in this sector for more than 10 years and I had a track record for doing things effectively.  She didn't give a hoot but wanted me to foot the bill, be approved by her and then be part of the list of offerors, with no guarantees of getting the business whatsoever.

When are we good enough for these people? I will never be good enough.

I left the meeting and vowed not to see her again. ​

End of the story.