If you want to be free from pressures, stop talking about your plans, or goals, or what you will eat tomorrow.

Keep it to yourself.

If you fail, it's all good.

If you succeed, it's all good.

If you don't move a thing, it's all good.

If you start yapping, the pressure is on and either you're lying to yourself or you just want to blab.

Blabbers get found out.

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I have realized for the past few years that I can help a lot of organizations but it boils down to ethics and integrity.

-Am I helping because I just want to prove that I can?
-Am I helping because I want something back?
-Am I helping because I'm being pressured to help?
-Am I helping because I want them to like/need me?

These are not the right reasons to help a particular organization or an individual. Neither will I be pressured to help just because I was being asked to nor because I 'thought' they need saving. 

The savior mentality is never good and creates greater harm. 

And if they don't want to be helped, I get out of the way. 

And ultimately, if I believe that I shouldn't be involved at all. 

That's wisdom in helping.

Did this help you? 

Time to brew my coffee and write.....

Boeing's Starliner's two passenger crews are stuck in space, waiting for SpaceX to rescue them next year following an engine issue, which had been identified earlier on by Boeing and NASA.

I don't know what's the feeling of being stuck in space and nowhere to go but stay put for a few months until a rescue mission is possible but I wouldn't want to dare find out for myself.

The crews are doing well despite the challenge but it was reported that this wasn't their first 'stuck' situation.

I was stuck in an elevator for hours in Bangkok. It wasn't a pleasant one but I had to be calm and mentally present. The building technicians and the guard were alerted immediately and I knew that I just had to wait. 

If you're stuck in space with that blooping sound, you wonder who on earth made that stupid decision to trust a Boeing space machine despite the company's history of safety and manufacturing weaknesses.

You can't fake stupidity. 
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